Since I last blogged, I've been counting... my blessings! Many of you have read "One Thousand Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are," by Ann Voskamp. If you haven't read it, I highly recommend it! I recently started the book, and I'm learning to take time and notice God's blessings all around me,... and thank Him for them!
I'm thankful for the bird that sings to me every morning, when I rise before the rest of the family!
I'm thankful for yellow trees! (They have a name... guayacán... but I like to call them "yellow trees"!)
I'm thankful for the tornado-less thunderstorms I witness coming down the mountain!
I'm thankful for oxygen!
I'm thankful for the bread and wine, for the body and blood, for brokenness and forgiveness, for healing and victory. (God showed me that one at last week's communion service. No, we don't use wine at our church! Rather, referencing Christ's words.)
I'm thankful for hugs and kisses I receive every morning when my two favorite men leave the house and every afternoon when they return safely home!
At this stage in our lives, I'm thanking God for every pastor who accepts my request and invites us to share in their church in our upcoming itineration!
I'm thankful for those of you who faithfully give your faith promises!
I'm thankful for those of you who faithfully lift us up in prayer!
Everywhere around me, there is something to be thankful for! Even when our water goes out for two days due to damage in the line, I can be thankful that I have a home with clean, running water!
Count your many blessings, name them one by one!
Thursday, February 6, 2014
Tuesday, October 22, 2013
Count With Me.....
I count things. I don’t
do it on purpose… Well, sometimes I do.
But many times (too many times to count) I find myself counting things.
Fifteen stairs make up the staircase in our house.
There are 22 stairs between the classroom level and the
office level of the Bible college.
I recently counted ten blooming and brilliant yellow trees
visible from my office window. At the
same time, I noticed twelve birds sitting on an electric wire.
Quite often, on my trips downtown to the Bible college, I
notice career dog walkers and I quickly count how many dogs they have on
leashes. The highest for one person was
nine. One time I saw two walkers, and
they had at least twelve between the two of them.
The ascent from the city of Medellin (down in a valley) up
to the airport is quite a journey, and I’m always amazed at the people who bike
up this windy road. One Sunday, on our
way to preach at a church near the airport, I decided to count how many bikers
we passed. I stopped at 100… not because
I couldn’t count any higher, but because I’d proven a point to myself – there were
a lot!
When I’m bored or can’t sleep, I find myself not counting
sheep, but counting rhythms with my fingers.
Not just counting to make sure I have ten, but counting to an unheard
beat. One, two three,… four, five, six,… You get the point!
But one thing I have been unable to successfully count –
even past 100 – are God’s blessings!
Years ago, I purchased a book at a little shop in the Amana
Colonies (in Iowa), entitled, “14,000 things to be happy about.”, by Barbara
Ann Kipper. I must confess – I’ve never
read her entire list. But I dare say I could
come up with more things to be happy about… things I’m blessed with. Because I’ve been blessed beyond count…
beyond measure!
One of my favorite songs these days is “10,000 Reasons,” by
Matt Redman. The song challenges me to
find 10,000 reasons why I should (and can) sing praises to and bless the Lord!
November and December seem to be our months of “thanks-giving.” But we don’t have to wait until then! Right now, we can begin to count all of God’s
blessings in our lives! If we make a
list of 25-30 different blessings each day, we’ll have our list of 10,000 in
one year! (I also love math, but that’s
the subject for a future blog…..)
Signing off... I have some counting to do!
Image courtesy
of Ambro / FreeDigitalPhotos.net.
Monday, June 17, 2013
Vacation!
It's officially vacation season in
Colombia! You may think to yourself, "That's not anything unusual.
It is mid-June, after all." But it IS different in Colombia!
The official school year in Colombia
begins in February and ends in November. Though most of Colombia is north
of the equator, the country uses the southern hemisphere school calendar, and
considers December and January as "summer break" and mid-June to
mid-July as winter vacation. Vacation season officially kicked off Saturday, June 15, complete with fireworks and neighborhood all-night celebrations.
Of course, living in this City of Eternal
Spring, we never experience "winter," as we know it in Iowa.
And, in fact, "winter break" takes place at the end of one of
the "winter" (i.e., "rainy") seasons.
So what does vacation season in Colombia
mean? It means quiet days and noisy nights! It means fewer school
buses on the streets, but more people on the streets and in the popular
gathering places. It means special activities in daycare centers, at the zoo
and the museums, and at shopping centers for the kids.
It means all the popular vacation destinations – whether an hour out of
town, or an all-night bus trip away – are packed with families vacationing
together.
Vacation season at the Bible College means
students have completed their quarter of studies. It means we're getting
ready for two, separate week-long intensive classes, this year offering Greek and Pastoral
Theology III.
Because Christopher studies at a U.S.-based
school that follows the U.S. school calendar, it means he's on break for two
months instead of just one. It means mentally winding down from 11th
grade and anticipating 12th grade.
In our house, it means catching up on all
the things we've fallen behind in – office work, blogging, cleaning out
closets, etc. It means hosting AIM teams.
Yes, it's vacation season in Colombia!
That doesn't necessarily mean a vacation! But it does mean
change... and a change of pace!
Thursday, December 6, 2012
A Colombian Christmas
Last night, we went to a unique cultural celebration at our
son’s school, recognizing the beginning of the religious Christmas season. It reminded me that I’d purposed to blog
about the many unique cultural influences of the Christmas season here in
Colombia, in addition to how our family adapts to two different cultures and
celebrates Christmas.
The season is unofficially ushered in with fireworks and
parties all night November 30, welcoming in the month of December. A big event to mark the beginning of
Christmas in Medellin is the lighting of the Christmas lights. Medellin is known worldwide for its elaborate
Christmas lights display, this year boasting 18 million LED lights!
Because of Colombia’s deep religious roots, the religious aspect
of Christmas is very important. The
religious commencement of the season takes place on December 7, the “Day of
Immaculate Conception,” also known as the “Day of Candles,” when the people
light candles on the sidewalks and in the streets, ushering the way for the
mother Mary to come.
December 16 marks the start of the “Christmas Novena,”
which, in effect, means nine nights of prayers.
There are general prayers to pray each night, in addition to different specific
prayers to pray each of the nine nights, concluding the 24th of
December, which is considered Christmas Day in Colombia. These prayers include prayers to the Virgin
Mary, to Joseph, and to the Baby Jesus.
Another important aspect of the religious celebration is the
building of the Nativity. Whether it be
a small nativity displayed in a family home, or a neighborhood nativity
displayed outside the local Catholic church, the familiar images of the
nativity are added, one each night, concluding with the figure of Baby Jesus
being added on December 24.
Typical, seasonal food is also a big part of the Christmas
celebration. Natilla is a dessert made
with milk, cinnamon, corn starch, cloves, and panela, which is processed from sugar
cane. Buñuelos look like very large
donut holes, but they are actually made with cheese and are quite salty. They are very tasty if prepared well and
eaten warm. We’ve already eaten natilla
and buñuelos twice this season!
Sancocho, a stew made with chicken or beef, along with potatoes, yuca,
and plantain, is also very popular to eat this time of year. People prepare it in a big stock pot over a
fire on the sidewalk or on the curb. Sancocho
“kits” are actually sold along the streets the days leading up to Christmas,
which include the stock pot (I would guess they hold about five gallons),
ladles for stirring, and sticks to build the fire!
The Christmas celebration that begins on December 24, and
includes the “Boy Jesus” bringing gifts to the children, usually goes all night
long, into the wee hours of the morning.
December 25 is a very quiet day, as everyone sleeps in and rests up from
nearly a month of celebrating.
But the celebrating isn’t over yet. There’s still December 31st! But that’s another cultural experience all
together!
Obviously, there are many cultural differences in a
Colombian Christmas and an American Christmas!
So how do we celebrate? We enjoy
some of the Colombian traditions, yet we hold on to some of our American and
family traditions. We make sure we enjoy
the 18 million lights at least once during the season, with our car windows
rolled down, dressed in short-sleeve t-shirts and shorts (for the guys, at
least), listening to Kenny G or Michael W. Smith Christmas music, buying
popcorn and chuzos from venders off the street!
It’s always a little “different” with no snow and winter coats and
boots, but this is one area where we’ve adapted very well!
We also enjoy some of the typical Christmas foods of Colombia,
but we also make sure to enjoy our traditional Christmas dinner, including
turkey, mashed potatoes and gravy, etc. Our
first Christmas here eleven years ago, a turkey cost about $80. Prices have gone down considerably, and last
year I was able to get a free turkey with points I’d earned from my weekly grocery
shopping! (I’m working on points for
this year’s bird!)
When we arrived eleven years ago, none of our churches gave
any special emphasis to Christmas, feeling the need to separate themselves from
the Catholic culture. But now, more and
more churches are including Christmas music and drama in their celebrations,
seeing it as an opportunity to share the true reason for Christmas to their
neighbors. We typically add some of
these events to our busy calendar and enjoy their creativity in presenting the
Christmas story, yet another quite different cultural experience!
We usually enjoy a quiet Christmas Eve (December 24) as a
family, sometimes attending a church service if one of our local churches has
one. Our small family of three usually
exchanges gifts on Christmas morning.
Then, because our Colombian friends have already celebrated on the 24th,
we often invite a Colombian family over to share our typical Christmas Day
turkey dinner, complete with the trimmings.
With all the differences in these two cultures in which we
live, we’ve learned even more that it doesn’t really matter HOW we celebrate
Christmas! What’s most important is WHO
we celebrate and WHY we celebrate! JESUS
is THE REASON for this beautiful season!
Thursday, May 26, 2011
You've Got Mail!
This comes as exciting news to all of us, whether email, facebook or twitter posts, or honest to goodness "snail mail"! It's especially exciting when you live overseas and know that someone took the time, effort, and money to send you something in the mail!
We recently were expecting a package in the mail (Speed the Light equipment sent to us by the Iowa Ministry Network -- thanks to Iowa youth!). It was shipped by UPS which, because they don't actually have an office here, is therefore handled by a local carrier when it reaches Bogota.
Kevin was keeping track of the packge online, and it finally arrived in Bogota on a Thursday. So we started watching and waiting and expecting it the following week.
Monday came and went, with no package.
Tuesday, as I jumped in a taxi to go to the grocery store, I let the guard know we were expecting something from UPS and that I would be back in an hour.
That afternoon, the guard called to let me know that the delivery truck had indeed come while I was at the store, but that we had to pay customs fee, so the package could not be released. The guard gave me a phone number to call to verify the information and make arrangements.
Wednesday, with the cash tucked away, I expectantly waited for the truck to return. Finally, about 3pm, it came. He confirmed Kevin's name, I gave him the money, I signed in three different places, he signed a receipt, and he left. The package was one-fourth the size and weight I expected. I called Kevin with the good news, but while talking to him, I realized it wasn't addressed to us!!!!!
We had the wrong package!
Since I didn't recognize the name on the package, I called the guard and found out that the named individual lived in another house down the street!
Because the local carrier doesn't use the UPS tracking numbers, once they'd communicated with Kevin the afternoon before, they just assumed they were giving him the package he expected! We believe ours, indeed, was what they had attempted to deliver the day before, because the dollar amount for customs was the correct amount, but in the meantime, another package had been put on the truck, at the same address. When the truck arrived, the guard assumed it was the same package and sent him to our house!
"What are the odds," I asked myself, "in a city of four million people, that TWO packages would be sent from the United States via UPS, would be addressed to two houses in the same housing complex, and would arrive for delivery at the same time!?!?"
I will skip all the details, but after days of phone calls, both to the UPS in the United States and to the local carrier, both by Kevin and the Bible school secretary, one week later Kevin went directly to the carrier's office, returned the incorrect package and retrieved the new package.
The purpose of this blog is to give you a window into life in another culture and some of the joys, frustrations, and humor we experience in living life. I don't know if, in trying to keep this "brief", I've portrayed how complicated and interesting an experience this was! But it took Kevin bringing two cultures (US-based UPS practices/policies and Colombia operating systems) together, and showing up unannounced at the office to finally receive our package!
We are relieved that this experience was all eventually resolved, as we were looking at the definite possibility of losing the package and/or the money!
Thank you, God, for being concerned about all the details in our lives, even UPS packages!
We recently were expecting a package in the mail (Speed the Light equipment sent to us by the Iowa Ministry Network -- thanks to Iowa youth!). It was shipped by UPS which, because they don't actually have an office here, is therefore handled by a local carrier when it reaches Bogota.
Kevin was keeping track of the packge online, and it finally arrived in Bogota on a Thursday. So we started watching and waiting and expecting it the following week.
Monday came and went, with no package.
Tuesday, as I jumped in a taxi to go to the grocery store, I let the guard know we were expecting something from UPS and that I would be back in an hour.
That afternoon, the guard called to let me know that the delivery truck had indeed come while I was at the store, but that we had to pay customs fee, so the package could not be released. The guard gave me a phone number to call to verify the information and make arrangements.
Wednesday, with the cash tucked away, I expectantly waited for the truck to return. Finally, about 3pm, it came. He confirmed Kevin's name, I gave him the money, I signed in three different places, he signed a receipt, and he left. The package was one-fourth the size and weight I expected. I called Kevin with the good news, but while talking to him, I realized it wasn't addressed to us!!!!!
We had the wrong package!
Since I didn't recognize the name on the package, I called the guard and found out that the named individual lived in another house down the street!
Because the local carrier doesn't use the UPS tracking numbers, once they'd communicated with Kevin the afternoon before, they just assumed they were giving him the package he expected! We believe ours, indeed, was what they had attempted to deliver the day before, because the dollar amount for customs was the correct amount, but in the meantime, another package had been put on the truck, at the same address. When the truck arrived, the guard assumed it was the same package and sent him to our house!
"What are the odds," I asked myself, "in a city of four million people, that TWO packages would be sent from the United States via UPS, would be addressed to two houses in the same housing complex, and would arrive for delivery at the same time!?!?"
I will skip all the details, but after days of phone calls, both to the UPS in the United States and to the local carrier, both by Kevin and the Bible school secretary, one week later Kevin went directly to the carrier's office, returned the incorrect package and retrieved the new package.
The purpose of this blog is to give you a window into life in another culture and some of the joys, frustrations, and humor we experience in living life. I don't know if, in trying to keep this "brief", I've portrayed how complicated and interesting an experience this was! But it took Kevin bringing two cultures (US-based UPS practices/policies and Colombia operating systems) together, and showing up unannounced at the office to finally receive our package!
We are relieved that this experience was all eventually resolved, as we were looking at the definite possibility of losing the package and/or the money!
Thank you, God, for being concerned about all the details in our lives, even UPS packages!
Thursday, April 28, 2011
Not Your Typical Easter Dinner!
It's unbelievable that Easter Sunday has come and gone!
Easter is one of those holidays that we can become homesick, because we miss the traditional American Christian/Evangelical church celebrations -- Easter Sunrise services, church cantatas, classic Easter hymns (such as "He Arose").
And then there's Easter dinner - ham, potatoes, green beans, eating too much, as though we didn't learn our lesson from Thanksgiving and Christmas family dinners!
When we first came to Colombia, and we realized Easter wouldn't be "typical" for us, not just in the church service, but also around the dinner table, we decided to make it feel as close to "home" as possible. Colombians do not typically eat ham they way we Americans (or at least Iowans) do. The best I could do for a ham was to buy a four-inch slice (or "chunk") of ham lunchmeat from the deli counter. I would wrap it in foil and put it in the crockpot, along with three potatoes, and then fix a quick vegetable when we got home from church. This was becoming our "typical" Easter dinner.
But this past weekend, it didn't turn out that way.
Kevin was scheduled to preach two services Easter Sunday morning. Because we'd had a busy week of ministry with visiting US pastors, he'd not had a lot of time to prepare for the sermon. Saturday, therefore, was spent mostly studying and preparing. Between needing to give him the time to do that, and the very rainy day we were having, we decided rather than going to the store to buy the "chunk" of ham, we'd just go out for lunch. After all, who said you had to have the typical Easter dinner at home?!
Resurrection Sunday finally came! Kevin preached an awesome message, with many people responding at the altar, including several first-time salvation commitments. After the second service, we discussed where we would go for lunch. Trying to think of something "different," rather than our normal favorites, we decided upon one of our pizza favorites (for those of you who know us really, really well, you know that pizza is always a hit and a unanimous decision in our family!).
So our Easter Sunday dinner ended up being 1969 Pizza ... with ham!
I got to thinking later that day how "untypical" our Easter Day had been, but then I realized...
When God raised Jesus from the grave, it became an "untypical" day, not only in Jerusalem on that first Easter Sunday, but also on the Christian calendar. I realized that God doesn't want me to have a "typical" Easter Sunday, or any Sunday for that matter!
Every Sunday should be a day to celebrate Christ's resurrection power, Christ's healing power, Christ's saving power, Christ's delivering power, all as a result of that first Resurrection Sunday over 2,000 years ago.
So next year, I don't expect we will have a "typical" Easter, but that's okay!
Easter is one of those holidays that we can become homesick, because we miss the traditional American Christian/Evangelical church celebrations -- Easter Sunrise services, church cantatas, classic Easter hymns (such as "He Arose").
And then there's Easter dinner - ham, potatoes, green beans, eating too much, as though we didn't learn our lesson from Thanksgiving and Christmas family dinners!
When we first came to Colombia, and we realized Easter wouldn't be "typical" for us, not just in the church service, but also around the dinner table, we decided to make it feel as close to "home" as possible. Colombians do not typically eat ham they way we Americans (or at least Iowans) do. The best I could do for a ham was to buy a four-inch slice (or "chunk") of ham lunchmeat from the deli counter. I would wrap it in foil and put it in the crockpot, along with three potatoes, and then fix a quick vegetable when we got home from church. This was becoming our "typical" Easter dinner.
But this past weekend, it didn't turn out that way.
Kevin was scheduled to preach two services Easter Sunday morning. Because we'd had a busy week of ministry with visiting US pastors, he'd not had a lot of time to prepare for the sermon. Saturday, therefore, was spent mostly studying and preparing. Between needing to give him the time to do that, and the very rainy day we were having, we decided rather than going to the store to buy the "chunk" of ham, we'd just go out for lunch. After all, who said you had to have the typical Easter dinner at home?!
Resurrection Sunday finally came! Kevin preached an awesome message, with many people responding at the altar, including several first-time salvation commitments. After the second service, we discussed where we would go for lunch. Trying to think of something "different," rather than our normal favorites, we decided upon one of our pizza favorites (for those of you who know us really, really well, you know that pizza is always a hit and a unanimous decision in our family!).
So our Easter Sunday dinner ended up being 1969 Pizza ... with ham!
I got to thinking later that day how "untypical" our Easter Day had been, but then I realized...
When God raised Jesus from the grave, it became an "untypical" day, not only in Jerusalem on that first Easter Sunday, but also on the Christian calendar. I realized that God doesn't want me to have a "typical" Easter Sunday, or any Sunday for that matter!
Every Sunday should be a day to celebrate Christ's resurrection power, Christ's healing power, Christ's saving power, Christ's delivering power, all as a result of that first Resurrection Sunday over 2,000 years ago.
So next year, I don't expect we will have a "typical" Easter, but that's okay!
Thursday, March 31, 2011
A Wedding in Colombia
We recently had opportunity to attend a wedding here in Medellin. Because some have asked what cultural differences there might be in the ceremony, I thought that would be a good topic to blog!
I will preface by saying these are my observations, based on the 10-12 weddings we have attended, all of which have been Christian weddings. I have no knowledge of what takes place in a non-Christian ceremony.
The bride prepares herself at home, rather than on location, and eventually arrives by taxi.
The wedding typically starts one or one and one-half hours late. It's usually blamed on the bride, who arrived late due to heavy traffic! The wedding we recently attended started just 55 minutes late, with the officiating minister arriving just 40 minutes late.
Speaking of the minister, he is not recognized in a legal capacity to unite individuals in marriage. The "legal" ceremony typically takes place the week before in front of a justice of the peace. The minister then performs the exchanges of vows and commitment before God and witnesses.
The ceremony may be held in the local church, or an auditorium or meeting hall may be rented. It is common that the location/room for the wedding will also be the location/room for the reception, and will therefore be arranged such that the guests sit at tables to watch the wedding.
It is also typical to have only two-three attendants with the bride and groomsmen with the groom, each of whom wear whatever attire they have chosen, based on a color theme. The recent wedding was the first wedding we've attended that had more continuity. All NINE of the ladies wore a black dress and black shoes they'd individually chosen, and the bride provided a dark red sash to wear around the waist. The nine men wore black suits. However, it still wasn't how we are accustomed, where the bride and groom choose the attire, the pattern, the tuxes, etc.
When the ceremony begins...
It's common to have an MC, who introduces that the ceremony is to begin and thanks everyone for coming. The bridesmaids are ushered in by the groomsmen and typically line the center aisle. The groom is accompanied by his parents to the front of the auditorium, then turn and face the back. When the bride is ready to make her entrance, the groom and his parents return to the back of the room (about two-thirds back). The bride is ushered in by her parents, and they stop in front of the groom and his parents.
The minister asks who gives the bride to the groom, to which we are accustomed, and the bride's parents respond. Then the parents present the bride to the groom; the two sets of parents greet one another; the bride and groom go to the front of the auditorium, and they sit down, facing the minister. The flower girl and ring bearer sit beside the bride and groom, respectively. The couple stays seated throughout the ceremony, until time for the vows and exchange of rings. The attendants sit with the rest of the congregation, rather than staying with the couple.
The ceremony is similar to one in the US -- a brief message by the minister, followed by the vows and exchange of rings.
Music plays a large part in the ceremony, usually with the entire church worship band and singers -- keyboard, drums, guitars, possibly other instruments, and several vocalists.
After the minister pronounces the couple as husband and wife, it is common practice that one of them sings a song to the other, or the couple sings a duet. It doesn't seem to matter what the level of talent is... It's the thought that counts!
At the conclusion of the wedding, the MC once again thanks everyone for coming and gives instructions regarding greeting the couple, reception, etc. If the auditorium was arranged in a typical "church" setting, with chairs in rows, immediately upon termination of the ceremony, the chairs are moved to the outside walls to make the space more inviting for the reception.
Whether the reception is simple or elaborate (hors d'oeuvres, cake, or dinner), it usually starts with all being served what appears to be champagne (but contains no alcohol) so that all can give a toast to the new couple.
We have never stayed to the very end of the wedding event, so I can't give you any information on how the couple leaves. Usually, because the ceremony starts late and we're tired, we excuse ourselves after we've had opportunity to congratulate the couple and the parents!
This was long, but I hope it was interesting and entertaining, to see how the wedding ceremony is similar and how it is different. Whatever the culture, it is a special time and we enjoy being a part of the celebration, as two people commit themselves and their future to God and to each other!
I will preface by saying these are my observations, based on the 10-12 weddings we have attended, all of which have been Christian weddings. I have no knowledge of what takes place in a non-Christian ceremony.
The bride prepares herself at home, rather than on location, and eventually arrives by taxi.
The wedding typically starts one or one and one-half hours late. It's usually blamed on the bride, who arrived late due to heavy traffic! The wedding we recently attended started just 55 minutes late, with the officiating minister arriving just 40 minutes late.
Speaking of the minister, he is not recognized in a legal capacity to unite individuals in marriage. The "legal" ceremony typically takes place the week before in front of a justice of the peace. The minister then performs the exchanges of vows and commitment before God and witnesses.
The ceremony may be held in the local church, or an auditorium or meeting hall may be rented. It is common that the location/room for the wedding will also be the location/room for the reception, and will therefore be arranged such that the guests sit at tables to watch the wedding.
It is also typical to have only two-three attendants with the bride and groomsmen with the groom, each of whom wear whatever attire they have chosen, based on a color theme. The recent wedding was the first wedding we've attended that had more continuity. All NINE of the ladies wore a black dress and black shoes they'd individually chosen, and the bride provided a dark red sash to wear around the waist. The nine men wore black suits. However, it still wasn't how we are accustomed, where the bride and groom choose the attire, the pattern, the tuxes, etc.
When the ceremony begins...
It's common to have an MC, who introduces that the ceremony is to begin and thanks everyone for coming. The bridesmaids are ushered in by the groomsmen and typically line the center aisle. The groom is accompanied by his parents to the front of the auditorium, then turn and face the back. When the bride is ready to make her entrance, the groom and his parents return to the back of the room (about two-thirds back). The bride is ushered in by her parents, and they stop in front of the groom and his parents.
The minister asks who gives the bride to the groom, to which we are accustomed, and the bride's parents respond. Then the parents present the bride to the groom; the two sets of parents greet one another; the bride and groom go to the front of the auditorium, and they sit down, facing the minister. The flower girl and ring bearer sit beside the bride and groom, respectively. The couple stays seated throughout the ceremony, until time for the vows and exchange of rings. The attendants sit with the rest of the congregation, rather than staying with the couple.
The ceremony is similar to one in the US -- a brief message by the minister, followed by the vows and exchange of rings.
Music plays a large part in the ceremony, usually with the entire church worship band and singers -- keyboard, drums, guitars, possibly other instruments, and several vocalists.
After the minister pronounces the couple as husband and wife, it is common practice that one of them sings a song to the other, or the couple sings a duet. It doesn't seem to matter what the level of talent is... It's the thought that counts!
At the conclusion of the wedding, the MC once again thanks everyone for coming and gives instructions regarding greeting the couple, reception, etc. If the auditorium was arranged in a typical "church" setting, with chairs in rows, immediately upon termination of the ceremony, the chairs are moved to the outside walls to make the space more inviting for the reception.
Whether the reception is simple or elaborate (hors d'oeuvres, cake, or dinner), it usually starts with all being served what appears to be champagne (but contains no alcohol) so that all can give a toast to the new couple.
We have never stayed to the very end of the wedding event, so I can't give you any information on how the couple leaves. Usually, because the ceremony starts late and we're tired, we excuse ourselves after we've had opportunity to congratulate the couple and the parents!
This was long, but I hope it was interesting and entertaining, to see how the wedding ceremony is similar and how it is different. Whatever the culture, it is a special time and we enjoy being a part of the celebration, as two people commit themselves and their future to God and to each other!
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Time Flies When You're...
..."having fun" may not be the best completion of that sentence sometimes!
I can't believe it's been over three weeks since I've written! I did so well at writing weekly, but my, how the time flies...
It's been very, very busy.. hectic... confusing... frustrating..., but things, one by one, are finally coming together.
After writing about the good news of getting the house, we officially moved in December 28 (though the movers didn't bring our belongings until the 29th), and then we were unable to sleep at the house until the night of January 1 -- a good way to start off the new year!
The gas line throughout the house was bad (which the owner knew about but never resolved), so an entire new line had to be installed, meaning the kitchen was torn up and there was no hot water, gas for cooking, or gas for the dryer.
Then there has been the visa issue... Kevin spent two days last week in Bogota, trying to get our visas. We still don't having them, but are praying that today will be the day! A Colombian brother is presenting the documents once again today, with powers of attorney from us.
Then there is schooling for Christopher... When we went to register him the day before the new semester was to begin, we were told he would need to take an entrance exam because he'd been gone more than one school year. He passed that with flying colors, and he officially started his second semester as a ninth grader yesterday.
This blog may not be quite as humorous as others. There have been humorous moments, of which I am truly thankful to God! I look forward to opportunities to write more about those moments in the future! But in the meantime, I wanted to take this opportunity to catch you up on what's been happening and why I've not blogged!
Praying for humor in your day today!
I can't believe it's been over three weeks since I've written! I did so well at writing weekly, but my, how the time flies...
It's been very, very busy.. hectic... confusing... frustrating..., but things, one by one, are finally coming together.
After writing about the good news of getting the house, we officially moved in December 28 (though the movers didn't bring our belongings until the 29th), and then we were unable to sleep at the house until the night of January 1 -- a good way to start off the new year!
The gas line throughout the house was bad (which the owner knew about but never resolved), so an entire new line had to be installed, meaning the kitchen was torn up and there was no hot water, gas for cooking, or gas for the dryer.
Then there has been the visa issue... Kevin spent two days last week in Bogota, trying to get our visas. We still don't having them, but are praying that today will be the day! A Colombian brother is presenting the documents once again today, with powers of attorney from us.
Then there is schooling for Christopher... When we went to register him the day before the new semester was to begin, we were told he would need to take an entrance exam because he'd been gone more than one school year. He passed that with flying colors, and he officially started his second semester as a ninth grader yesterday.
This blog may not be quite as humorous as others. There have been humorous moments, of which I am truly thankful to God! I look forward to opportunities to write more about those moments in the future! But in the meantime, I wanted to take this opportunity to catch you up on what's been happening and why I've not blogged!
Praying for humor in your day today!
Thursday, December 23, 2010
A Christmas Wish Come True!
I know it's not officially Christmas yet, but I'm sure many have already experienced the joy of receiving gifts from those you love!
This afternoon, we received a very special gift from someone we love very much...
GOD has answered our prayers and has opened the door and worked out all the details for us to be approved for the house we found three weeks ago!
I will spare you most of the details, but just to give you a picture of all that was involved in being approved for this house...
We first applied and needed two co-signers.
One was not accepted because he was a co-signer in a business transaction with someone else in this city of more than four million people...
Then we discovered that, sometime during our absence, the utilities company took over customers' accounts in small villages throughout the state and merged existing account numbers with these other customers' numbers, resulting in some unknown individual having the same account number as ours and not paying his utilities for seven months. (We are still trying to get this problem cleared up, which has been another process of paperwork that could reach from here back to Iowa.)
We then acquired a new second co-signer. In addition, a dear friend in one of our churches offered to rent the house for us in her name.
It has been over a week of trying to satisfy the agency with all the right documents from her. Today, after playing phone tag with the rental agency, she finally went to their office and sat down until they gave her answers!
She called us with the good news as soon as she knew all was in order.
We thank you so much for praying!
Most importantly, we are grateful to GOD for His faithfulness and for His concern in the details!
May all your Christmas wishes come true and may God bless all that you set your heart to do!
This afternoon, we received a very special gift from someone we love very much...
GOD has answered our prayers and has opened the door and worked out all the details for us to be approved for the house we found three weeks ago!
I will spare you most of the details, but just to give you a picture of all that was involved in being approved for this house...
We first applied and needed two co-signers.
One was not accepted because he was a co-signer in a business transaction with someone else in this city of more than four million people...
Then we discovered that, sometime during our absence, the utilities company took over customers' accounts in small villages throughout the state and merged existing account numbers with these other customers' numbers, resulting in some unknown individual having the same account number as ours and not paying his utilities for seven months. (We are still trying to get this problem cleared up, which has been another process of paperwork that could reach from here back to Iowa.)
We then acquired a new second co-signer. In addition, a dear friend in one of our churches offered to rent the house for us in her name.
It has been over a week of trying to satisfy the agency with all the right documents from her. Today, after playing phone tag with the rental agency, she finally went to their office and sat down until they gave her answers!
She called us with the good news as soon as she knew all was in order.
We thank you so much for praying!
Most importantly, we are grateful to GOD for His faithfulness and for His concern in the details!
May all your Christmas wishes come true and may God bless all that you set your heart to do!
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Mañana, Mañana...
We've been hearing that a lot lately!
Tomorrow, tomorrow...
We'll have the documents ready for you tomorrow...
We'll have the photos ready for you tomorrow...
The water jugs will be delivered tomorrow...
Sometimes, it's "after the first of the year"...
Flights will be cheaper after the first of the year...
Costs for your shipment will be cheaper after the first of the year...
I'm being reminded on a daily basis that, as one of God’s children, I am to "clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience" (Col 3:12).
I'm also reminded, after finishing the Book of Revelation in spanish this morning, that Christ's coming may be mañana, it may be after the first of the year, or it may be today! That makes all the other details not so important anymore!
Come quickly, Lord Jesus!
.
Tomorrow, tomorrow...
We'll have the documents ready for you tomorrow...
We'll have the photos ready for you tomorrow...
The water jugs will be delivered tomorrow...
Sometimes, it's "after the first of the year"...
Flights will be cheaper after the first of the year...
Costs for your shipment will be cheaper after the first of the year...
I'm being reminded on a daily basis that, as one of God’s children, I am to "clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience" (Col 3:12).
I'm also reminded, after finishing the Book of Revelation in spanish this morning, that Christ's coming may be mañana, it may be after the first of the year, or it may be today! That makes all the other details not so important anymore!
Come quickly, Lord Jesus!
.
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
The Cake and the Rat
We've been back in Colombia for just little over a week, and life here started out with a bang! For as many years as we've been here (over ten years), you would think nothing would surprise me! But that's not the case...
Last Thursday, a pastor's wife/friend of ours helped us purchase cakes for the Bible school graduation. The cake, "torta negra" ("black cake") is a very popular cake here, especially for celebrations. The best way I can describe it is Christmas fruitcake. Though, as its name implies, it is black; it is made with figs, raisins, and I'm not sure what else. As the woman at the bakery told us, "You can save these for a month and a half and they will still be fresh!" It is NOT our favorite cake, but that's another story...
Early Friday morning, we moved the cakes to the center of the table where they were sitting, so that our Beagle, Cocoa (who'd just been delivered to us after seventeen months of our absence), wouldn't eat them. When we moved them, we discovered lots of crumbs across the table and on a nearby chair, but more importantly a huge chunk missing out of the corner of one of the cakes.
We expected a critter of some sort had a feast during the night. Oh, well...
Fast forward to Monday morning, the day of graduation. Kevin opened the closet in the studio office to get the video cameras out and ready for videotaping of the event later that evening. When he opened the door, he was shocked to find the stash of cake chunks (and other bits of evidence) that the culprit -- a rat -- had hidden away, probably for his own celebration!
All I can say, is I'm glad we've been living UPSTAIRS and the rat hasn't yet found the stairs!
Rat poison was purchased. So far, we've not seen any further evidence. Let's hope it stays that way!
Have a great day!
Last Thursday, a pastor's wife/friend of ours helped us purchase cakes for the Bible school graduation. The cake, "torta negra" ("black cake") is a very popular cake here, especially for celebrations. The best way I can describe it is Christmas fruitcake. Though, as its name implies, it is black; it is made with figs, raisins, and I'm not sure what else. As the woman at the bakery told us, "You can save these for a month and a half and they will still be fresh!" It is NOT our favorite cake, but that's another story...
Early Friday morning, we moved the cakes to the center of the table where they were sitting, so that our Beagle, Cocoa (who'd just been delivered to us after seventeen months of our absence), wouldn't eat them. When we moved them, we discovered lots of crumbs across the table and on a nearby chair, but more importantly a huge chunk missing out of the corner of one of the cakes.
We expected a critter of some sort had a feast during the night. Oh, well...
Fast forward to Monday morning, the day of graduation. Kevin opened the closet in the studio office to get the video cameras out and ready for videotaping of the event later that evening. When he opened the door, he was shocked to find the stash of cake chunks (and other bits of evidence) that the culprit -- a rat -- had hidden away, probably for his own celebration!
All I can say, is I'm glad we've been living UPSTAIRS and the rat hasn't yet found the stairs!
Rat poison was purchased. So far, we've not seen any further evidence. Let's hope it stays that way!
Have a great day!
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Welcome to Colombia!
We are finally back! We arrived in Medellin Monday night, with a warm welcome by our friends, Pastors Isai and Natalia, and Estrella.
It is so good to be back home!
As a matter of introduction to my blog, this is a new thing for me!
A dear friend, Betsy Bierle, has been working on a website for our family and ministry, and she has encouraged us to start blogging and adding that as a feature on the website. (Look for more info on the website, when it is up and running.)
So I've chosen to feature in my blog what life is like for me here in Colombia, and let you see inside the humor and the seriousness of my life as an ordinary wife, an ordinary mother, living a not-so-ordinary life in a different place.
I know that God will never be surprised by the things I experience, and He is carrying me through every step. But I expect that some of the things I experience might surprise you, the reader! So enjoy the adventure with me!
It is so good to be back home!
As a matter of introduction to my blog, this is a new thing for me!
A dear friend, Betsy Bierle, has been working on a website for our family and ministry, and she has encouraged us to start blogging and adding that as a feature on the website. (Look for more info on the website, when it is up and running.)
So I've chosen to feature in my blog what life is like for me here in Colombia, and let you see inside the humor and the seriousness of my life as an ordinary wife, an ordinary mother, living a not-so-ordinary life in a different place.
I know that God will never be surprised by the things I experience, and He is carrying me through every step. But I expect that some of the things I experience might surprise you, the reader! So enjoy the adventure with me!
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)

